Venue Conduct Policy: Rituals, Boundaries, and Respect

General Expectations:

• Respect for All: Treat every soul in our space with compassion, reverence, and respect.

• Prohibited Behavior: Harassment, coercion, or even mild persuasion will not be tolerated. Violation may result in removal from the sanctuary.

• Consent is Sacred: Explicit, enthusiastic consent is required for all interactions and activities. Every touch, every time, requires clear consent—even if permission was granted before.

• Hands Off Without Consent: Never touch others—or their belongings—without permission. Respect the sanctity of their boundaries.

• Clear Boundaries: Communicate openly. A "yes" must be enthusiastic, and a "no" is a hard line to be honored.

• Report the Shadows: Any unsafe or non-consensual behavior should be reported to staff immediately. Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) scenes must be pre-approved by a Dungeon Monitor (DM).

• A Welcoming Haven: Discrimination, misgendering, and kink-shaming have no place here. Mistakes happen; we offer grace when they do.

• Privacy Matters: Keep all encounters within these walls confidential. No photography or recording without explicit consent from everyone involved and DM approval.

General Space Rituals:

• No Intoxicants: Our space is sacred—leave substances at the door. Anyone appearing impaired will not be permitted into play spaces.

• Smoking/Vaping: Allowed only in designated outdoor zones (tobacco only).

• Electronic Devices: No cell phones or tablets visible in playrooms without notifying leadership. Always get consent from all before capturing moments.

• Closed Door Rule: No unauthorized closed doors unless approved by a DM.

• Selling Goods: Selling items requires prior approval from The Collective OC. No exchange of sexual services is permitted.

• Attire and Materials: Maintain partial covering in shared spaces (at least a thong). No glitter, body shimmer, or other unsafe materials allowed.

Play Space Rituals:
Equipment and Furniture Care:

• Handle with Care: Treat our tools and furniture with respect. Report any concerns before use.

• Cleanse Your Tools: Thoroughly clean equipment after use with the provided supplies.

• Respect Boundaries: No food, drinks, or exposed genitals on shared equipment. Use barriers for any contact.

Play Rituals:

• House Safe Word: "RED" stops everything—immediately.

• Non-Verbal Safety: Use safe signals if you cannot speak. Inform a DM of any cues.

• DM Authority: Dungeon Monitors (DMs) have the final word—heed their guidance or be asked to leave.

• RACK/PRICK Principles: Follow Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK) or Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink (PRICK) during all play.

• Respect Other Scenes: Observe from a distance, keep quiet, and never interfere with active scenes. Interaction waits until aftercare is complete.

Play Space Etiquette:

• Mindful Observation: Watch with respect from a distance—no comments or disruptions.

• Manage Your Triggers: Step away if needed, and notify a DM if anything feels unsafe.

• Fluid Barriers: Use proper barriers to prevent fluids from contacting dungeon furniture and equipment.

Special Rituals Only at Designated Events:

• Specialty Practices: Wrestling, fire cupping, wax play, knife play, needle play, and piercing require specialized event settings.

Specific Play Boundaries:

• No Direct Penetration: This includes mouth, fingers, or objects in genitals or anus.

• Advanced Approval Required: CNC, suspensions, mummification, and other intense practices need DM approval.

• Medical Play: Allowed only in designated areas with appropriate safety measures.

Toy and Gear Guidelines:

• Size Matters: Whips and swinging toys must be 4 feet or shorter. Fire whips and floggers are not permitted.

• Safe Gags: Must not pose choking risks.

• No Personal Locks: Leave your padlocks at home—our equipment is a shared treasure.

Allowed Through Clothing:

• Genital worship (within limits)

• Touching with consent

• Genital clamps

• CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)

What Stays Outside Our Sanctuary:

• No Direct Penetration or Fluids Exchange: No genital-to-genital contact, oral-genital play, or insertion. No cum play, golden showers, or bodily fluids on furniture.

• Medical and Alteration: No cutting, branding, tattooing, or other body modifications.

• Prohibited: Waterboarding, bestiality, and any illicit substances are strictly forbidden.

• Clothing Rules: Maintain some coverage in shared spaces—no full nudity, and avoid glitter or hazardous materials.

• Prohibited Tools: No fire play or electrical play with an EGG or probe. Water-based lubricants only.